First Church of Terry

I saw the above image a little while ago and was really shocked at just how prevalent online dating is. It absolutely smashes any other means of couples meeting.

Im believe that online dating isnt "real" dating, and dating apps in general, just like how twitter/facebook is designed to keep you 'engaged' by keeping you angry, or youtube/tiktok designed to keep you 'engaged' by keeping you addicted to their dopamine drip, keep you addicted to their apps by keeping you lonely and making you think that a 'better partner' is just a few swipes away. Its dehumanizing.

I wont go into much more detail about it, im sure most can agree the situation is fucked and these apps are sinful in nature, but wtf can be done about it?

only people that can succeed at online dating even participate in it anymore.
Unless youre chad thundercock with a dozen bitches on rotation, good luck

There is no more room for actual "Love" anymore.
Love is a skill, it's not some intense feeling that will just always be present if the other person is 'juuuuust' right.
These apps have you thinking that a better partner is just a few swipes away, that you can always upgrade. Status games. Trading up.
There is no more commitment. A relationship leaves its honeymoon phase and "the love is just gone now" and its off to find a new dick to suck.

It doesn't help that shit like TikTok is feeding young women the idea that they NEVER have to compromise. That they are perfect, that cooking and cleaning is degrading, that "they are the table" and so they don't have to bring anything to it. Then they find themselves angry at all men because Chad Thundercock pumped and dumped them again for the 30th this this year. If all you have to bring to your table is your body, and you aren't serious about commitment because you can always upgrade people will treat you accordingly.
So yeah, you have a large swath of people that are just completely checked out.
"The male loneliness epidemic" but of course those are just incels and low quality men that don't even deserve love/compassion/attention. But why aren't my male friends dating? geez who knows.
https://web.archive.org/web/20241202155 ... 3154817124

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfBso0Y4ETI
" It’s not that intimacy is being destroyed; it’s being monetised. Pay for the dating apps to find love, social media full of ads just to talk to your friends. The basic human need for companionship and connection is being exploited for money, while those same greed-driven systems destroy any natural closeness we might have. "